Bolivia has always been a country I've wanted to visit and I can't say exactly why, but it caught my attention and so far it hasn't disappointed. I arrived in Santa Cruz de la Cierra on 7/9 and I was graciously picked up at the airport at 2 a.m. by a smattering of the Brown family and a representation from the Zabala family.
Mike and Ingrid Brown and their kids (Dominique, Cristina, Cecilia, and Nathaneal) are my friends from our hispanic group at church and they invited me to visit Santa Cruz de la Cierra with them this summer. The Browns are visiting their family and friends for six weeks this summer. There was no room for me at the Lopez inn (Ingrid's parents) so good friends of the Browns, Deborah and Carlos Zabala, let me stay at their house.
I had it very good during my time with the Zabalas and the Browns with curbside pickup (and plenty of company on each journey), treats provided by an enthusiastic chef-in- the-making (Karlita), and a daily itinerary of events provided by the organizing extraordinaire Ingrid. Santa Cruz is a laid back city blessed with beautiful weather and few tourists. The people of Santa Cruz are open and friendly and tend to be quick to offer assistance. I was blessed to get to know many of Ingrid's friends and those of the Zabalas. One delightful custom of Santa Cruz is afternoon tea and I was pleased to sample many delicious breads and sweets during the many visits Ingrid had planned with friends.
Another plan of Ingrid's was to share discipleship materials with her friend's small group, therefore I was enlisted to help her present the materials at a small group meeting and there I met some phenomenal women (and have a delicious tea time).
The Zabala household is full of teenagers (3 of them were home while I was there: Tayo, Karlita, and Nacho) so there are constantly friends stopping over and late night snacks being made. My time in Santa Cruz as a whole was nostalgic of my adolescence as I was constantly surrounded by adolescents and repeatedly mistaken for a 16-17 year old. At first the dropped jaws and incredulous looks were amusing when people learned my true age, but the novelty quickly wore off and and the repeated refrain, "No! I thought you were __ (16, 17, 19)!" became fastidious. (Although it continued to amuse the teenagers I was with). I know in 10 years this will be flattering if people still think I look younger, but until then it makes church retreats with 16 year olds more difficult : ). I did have a great time with the Brown girls and the Zabalas. It was neat to go to the Zabalas' church's retreat with Dominique, Cristina, and Cecilia and to see their faith as they worshiped Christ. I was particularly moved by eleven year old Cecilia's simple but powerful faith and through watching her God showed me how important it is to enter into His presence with expectation for God has a plan for each encounter/each day.
I love to dance, so a highlight of my time in Santa Cruz was teaching a few people the basics of swing and the twist (with a little salsa and charleston)! Tayo and I tried a basic flip and the first night it didnt go so well, but my last night there we landed it.
One afternoon all of the females went to a beauty shop together to get manicures/pedicures since they are so economical in Bolivia. I don't normally like to paint the nails on my hands as the paint usually chips in two days and I have an inordinate fear of choosing the wrong color and ending up looking "pretty in pink", but I thought "when in Bolivia...". I wanted clear nail polish or french tips, but the woman doing my hands had a grumpy demeanor and I wilted under it. I found myself looking through the colors which consisted largely of pinks, reds, palid baby blues and shocking yellows -- a clear polish was not in sight. The manicurest seemed annoyed by my hesitation as I looked over the colors with a sense of resignation, so I informed her that I didn't want a strong color; this led her to rapidly pick through a small sample of sickingly limpid pink hues. I felt like the kid from the Christmas Story movie as in horror I heard myself agreeing to a particularly ugly shade of sixties prom pink and then I watched as she layered it on in three thick coats. You can see the end result in the picture below. Of course I have no one to blame but myself, but it was a bit depressing to have Cristina sit down in the chair next to me and walk away with lovely french tipped nails. It has become clear in my time in Bolivia that I don't know how to react to grumpy salespeople, I tend to try to appease them. I was the recipient of a long rant in one artesian shop for looking through stacks of sweatshirts for the appropriate size (as the sizes were irregular). I meekly apologized at the end of one rant and was told an apology was not enough and if I was not going to buy anything I was just making a mess (I had planned on buying several things, but now I just felt shuffly-uncomfortable and unsure of what to do). I am not sure why, maybe I am a glutton for punishment, but I proceeded to reach for a sweater on a different shelf that I had intended to buy. The young woman looked at me with great annoyance and said, "Don't touch! And quit making a mess!" Yikes! I couldn't win, so I slunk out, but I felt bad. I really need to toughen up if I want to continue to shop in the mean streets of Bolivia.
